How Women's and LGBT Rights Are Intertwined

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Here's an link to an interesting article that appeared on Change.Org Blog. This expresses what I believe far more eloquently than I would be able to.

How Women's and LGBT Rights Are Intertwined

by Alex DiBranco

In August, Michael Jones reported on Change.org's Gay Rights blog on the disturbing practice of "corrective rape" -- also known as trying to rape a queer person, most often a lesbian, straight. Because all a woman really needs is a real man between her legs to realize what she's missing out on, the reasoning goes.

In South Africa, it has been an epidemic, with hundreds of queer women reporting corrective rape every year -- and many more silent in the shadows. The rapes are fed by a deadly cocktail of misogyny and homophobia; as this phenomenon makes all too clear, women's and LGBT rights are intertwined.

Yesterday, Abbie Kopf blogged on the Gay Rights blog, "Why Every Gay Rights Advocate Should Be a Feminist." And the sentiment goes both ways.
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Read the rest of the article here:  http://womensrights.change.org/blog/view/how_womens_and_lgbt_rights_are_intertwined

The article by Abbie Kopf is also worth reading.
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Your are free to comment as long as you are respectful.  Unfortunately due to recent events, I will be screening comments.

Yes, I agree with the position.  I've been active in human rights advocacy, including gay rights advocacy for 35+ years. I've been writing fanfic for six months. So before you start making assumptions that I'm a slash writer who 'thinks' they support gay rights, you might want to realize that I was involved in this issue before a lot of you were born. Long before it was fashionable to have gay friends, or participate in gay rights events. Long before AIDS, during AIDS and God-willing after AIDS. I have friends and family members who are gay and I'm not going to apologize to anyone for that.  If you have a problem with that, really that's your problem, not mine.

And if you don't agree that straight women should work for gay rights, that's fine. You are free to explain why. But you are not free to make personal attacks or judgments about the motivations of others unless you know them personally, send hate messages to my PM, or any other nutfuckery that you think up.  Instead take all that negative energy and make something positive out of it.
 
Go do something meaningful.  Write a letter on behalf of a political prisoner in another country. Attend a rally supporting rights for immigrants.  Open your checkbook and help kids who are homeless, feed a hungry child even if they aren't the same race or religion that you are.  There a dozens of things you can do to make the world a better place, that don't take a whole lot of time or even much money. Its fine to stand up for yourself, but if you only stand for yourself and don't stand up for others, then you're part of the problem, not part of the solution.
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Comments

[freekydj.livejournal.com]

Once again, proof that bigotry provokes violence. The idea that rape is going to "fix" a gay woman is insane. I just don't understand how rape could be considered acceptable against a gay woman, but not a straight woman.

It is an act of violence and emotional trauma regadless of a person's sexual orientation!

[kelticbanshee]

Given the attitudes I've been seeing recently from a lot of people, wise thing to screen comments.

I've had a couple of rants recently about all of this, and about some people's attitudes when the topic comes up for discussion. I can't remember where I read it but I've come across "women who think they know what they are talking about when it comes to LGTB rights really don't have a clue, cos there's no connection between both issues" more than once. *sigh*

I'm sure I'll have more sensible thoughts when I'm not falling asleep... :)

[rm.livejournal.com]

I don't think anyone believes straight women shouldn't work for gay rights or that the issues aren't intertwined (because they are and gay people should also care about feminism for this same reason). The problem, as I see it, is when straight women say they experience the same type (not quantity, TYPE) of oppression as gay men or gay women (who experience some different types of oppression themselves) and argue that they are somehow more legitimate participants in this civil rights battle than the people who are themselves directly affected. We need straight allies, not straight rescuers.

These same issues come up in anti-racism work. Yes, white women experience oppression. That is not the some oppression as people of color experience.

Allies need to take their cues from the people they are working with and for. It means not just being an activist, but being a good listener even if sometimes it is uncomfortable or feels unfair.

It's the listening part where people of all sorts in all sorts of fights tend to fall down.